27 October 2005

A Paraplegic Prince

Today I helped a family move all their earthly belongings from one house to another. It took less than an hour, and only one small truckload of actual things, the second load was people. The load of things consisted of a table and four chairs, two bed frames (no mattresses), three boxes, three baskets, about four sacks of food (mostly cassava roots, they call it mandioca here), and a few miscellaneous tools. This was a family of six. It made me ashamed to think about how many truck/van loads were required to move my things out of my apartment before I left the states…

And I say that I “helped” but really they wouldn’t let me do anything. It’s a weird feeling to be treated at the same time like royalty and like an invalid. A paraplegic prince, that’s what I feel like… As soon as we arrived at the old house I asked how I could help. They brought out one of their chairs and asked me if I would please just sit down and rest. And whenever I picked something up to load/unload, even the women would rush to take it from me – despite that I was stronger and healthier than anyone else present. Maybe my white skin makes me sickly? I’m never sure.

Yet despite their lack of material things, “blessed are the poor” kept coming into my head as I watched them interact. This family is one of the (relatively) few Christian families around, and even though they had so little, I could tell they were grateful for it. They were loving toward one another, and they were ecstatic that I was willing to help them move. And, of course, kids are kids regardless of language or culture, and I always have a good time with them…


This photo of a house isn’t the one that the family moved out of or into. It’s just a random house so you can see what is the norm around here. Typical houses are dirt floors, mud walls and grass roofs with bamboo frames.

I’m also including a photo here of me teaching about three weeks ago. Yeah, so I helped a fellow missionary teach a group of twenty pastors some of the basics of bible storying. Of course it was all in Portuguese, and of course I again couldn’t have done it alone. Thanks so much for your prayers about my language learning, I feel like I’m always bragging about how well the language is going for me, but I can definitely feel the results of the prayers, and that’s what I’m trying to show.

And these last two photos are of my recent trip to Johannesburg. I just returned from a 10-day trip down there to meet up with other people in the region who are doing this same two-year deal through the IMB. There were sixteen of us, and I only knew one other person previously. I had a great time. Didn’t get a whole lot of sleep, but I had a lot of fun, and that’s more important. The first photo is of me playing with a baby lion. Yeah, don’t know too many people who’ve done that now do ya? The second is of a few of us posing for a serious photo on the last night. Always serious.

8 Comments:

At Sat Oct 29, 09:58:00 PM EDT, Blogger amy said...

ok seeing that picture of you teaching everyone made me cry - this is so awesome! i love your analogy, your entire entry, especially the picture of the baby lion....that was so cute. thank you so much for the update!!!!

 
At Sun Oct 30, 06:19:00 AM EST, Blogger Crystal Dabney said...

dude....it is way not fair you got to go back with the little babies... it was cool hanging with you last week. Keep it real. See you at prayer retreat. Don't be a stranger e-mail me let me know what is REALLY going on

 
At Mon Oct 31, 02:33:00 PM EST, Blogger A. Victoria said...

What a strange situation to be in... You can not help, but they are glad that you came to help. :) Hmmm.
I hope that does not continue to be the way things go, that would be rather frustrating.

The pictures are great & I am glad that you updated!! God Bless!

 
At Mon Oct 31, 09:03:00 PM EST, Anonymous Anonymous said...

NTG
The family you write about sound like they are richer than most. They celebrate what truely matters in life and that is each other.

I do question your statement that you are stronger than they are, when in the last photo we see one of your new friends able to support you on his shoulders...are you still working out???? :)

You look comfortable teaching others and I'm sure they are thrilled you're there to share even simple Bible stories.

I'm happy you got to go to Joburg and hang out with some friends. It helps renew your spirit.

We miss you
xoxoxo
AS

 
At Wed Nov 02, 01:09:00 PM EST, Blogger A. Victoria said...

Did you get my last email? The way you ended your last email, it sounds like you have only recieved one from me. Hmmm. I will send it again.

I am glad that you liked the poem.:) I always get a good laugh out if it. :)

 
At Mon Nov 07, 01:50:00 PM EST, Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a humbling experience!-It is great to hear about the simpler ways and great appreciation of others for the basic things that we all take for granted! It is really energizing and renews our faith, hope and love for all:) We keep you in our prayers daily...and miss you greatly:/ Fabulous pictures(as always) and it's really wonderful to hear you are getting some fun things in too.(The lion baby is so cute!)...and how tough was it for those bottom support guys??-Wow...great shot!^^ M,D,&Co

 
At Wed Nov 30, 04:33:00 PM EST, Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is great to see that you are having so much fun. May God continue to keep you safe and know we are all praying for you.

Troy, Stacey, Austin, Abbey

 
At Wed Nov 30, 11:32:00 PM EST, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I hope you have a wonderful and happy Birthday. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Every time I get a chance to read your blogs you amaze me. I hope you are able to realize what a blessing you are, not just to the people in Mozambique, but also to those of us who are living vicariously though you and your adventures. Be safe.

Courtney

 

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